I hope life gives you more happy moments. I hope it gives you more than a million different reasons to wake up every morning when you contemplate whether it’s worth it or not. I will not tell you how bad other people have it. Everyone hurts different and it is no one’s place to tell [...]
To The Girl Who Loves Him Next.
I’m going to start with this: I hope it works out between you two. I genuinely, with all my heart, all my being, hope that it works out. When I first met him, I had hoped so badly that we would last, but life happened. Before I knew it, I wasn’t in love with the [...]
Some People Just Ain’t Shit.
The fact that you're struggling doesn't make you a burden. It doesn't mean you're unlovable or undeserving of care. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. We All fall apart. During these times, we are not easy to be around, and that's okay. Nobody is easy to be around 100% of the time. The truth is, [...]
Process Of Healing Yourself
You should know that there is a hole in me, which tends to ruins things like me and you. Because something got in that didn't belong and when it tried to leave it left me so open and so cold it became my new normal and I didn't know you could feel the breeze where [...]
If You Love Her, Don’t Destroy Her.
If I ever loved a woman, the more I loved her, the more I wanted to hurt her. -Diego Rivera I Know You Love Her. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t be with her. But since you’re only a human being with variable emotions, you might be inclined to love her in all the wrong ways. [...]
Sorry If My Overthinking Makes Me Hard To Love.
You could send me a text message with only one or two words and I will still overthink what your sentence meant. You could smile at me from across a crowded room and I will overthink what the look meant. I wish I knew what other people were thinking because I spend so much of [...]
How To: Love A Woman Who’s Been To Hell And Back.
The woman who has been to hell and back is not easy to love. Many have tried. Most have failed. The weak need not attempt, for it will take more strength than you even know you possess; more patience, more resilience, more tenacity, more resolve. It requires a relentless love, one that is determined and [...]
The Strongest Girls Have The Shitty “Dads”
When you have a toxic father, you learn from a young age that you should never rely on a man to bring you peace, stability, and happiness. You decide that you are going to take care of yourself. You are going to make your own money. You are going to buy your own clothes. You [...]
I’m Strong, But My Soul’s Exhausted
Exhausted isn’t just enough to describe the state I am going through right now. I am exhausted yes, this tiredness is beyond physiological tiredness. It’s psychological, it’s emotional. I am tired of being strong. I am tired of trying to put on that smile on my face every day of a strong woman and be [...]
Be Alone Until You Find Someone Who Gives A Shit About You!
Being alone is no scary, or bad, or a curse, or any other bullshit that people make it out to be. Being alone is also not lonely, unless you make it lonely. Being alone is better than settling for a bunch of shitty dates that make you feel horrible about yourself; or waking up next [...]
Perfectly Imperfect 